Erika Kirk Forgives Shooter at Charlie Kirk Memorial as 120,000 Attendees Frame His Death as Martyrdom and Catalyst for Revival
Erika Kirk stepped to the podium at State Farm Stadium on Sunday, September 21, her voice steady despite the tears tracing her cheeks, as 100,000 mourners filled the arena and more in overflow venues. The widow of conservative activist Charlie Kirk, slain 11 days earlier by a gunshot during a campus speech in Utah, began with a message that hushed the vast crowd: forgiveness. "That man, that young man, I forgive him," she said of the accused shooter, Tyler Robinson, a 22-year-old charged with first-degree murder.
"I forgive him because it was what Christ did and it is what Charlie would do." Her words, drawn from the Christian ethos her husband championed, rippled through the stadium, where screens broadcast the scene to an additional 20,000 at the nearby Desert Diamond Arena.
Leaning on the memory of her marriage, she spoke to men. "To all the men watching around the world, except Charlie's challenge and embrace true manhood. Be strong and courageous for your families, love our wives and lead them. Love your children and protect them, be the spiritual head of your home, but please be a leader worth following. Your wife is not your servant, your wife is not your employee, your wife is not your slave, she is your helper. You are not rivals. You are one flesh working together for the glory of God," he voiced with piercing words as the vast audience listened.
"I was Charlie's confident... I was his closest and most trusted advisor, his best friend. I poured into him and loved him so deeply. I empowered him because his love for me drove me to be a better wife. Everyday he honored me and I prayed that I could be the wife that God needed me to be for my husband."
Mrs. Kirk also spoke to women around the world. "Women I have a challenge for your too. Be virtuous. Our strength is found in God's design for our role. We're the guardians, we're the encouragers, we're the preservers. Guard your heart; everything you do flows from it. And if you're a mother please recognize that is the single most important ministry you have." The stadium, a sea of American flags and flickering phone lights, erupted in sustained applause, a testament to the raw humanity amid the grief.